Monday, November 12, 2012
Gifts that Give Back (along with 6, 7, and 8)
6. Let your Kids see you Be Generous. There are so many creative and fun ways to do this, especially this time of year!
Participate in programs like Operation Christmas Child.
Lifesong for Orphans is giving out a special Advent Calendar that incorporates giving into your holiday season.
Take advantage of Christmas Catalogs that ministries like Compassion, World Vision and Lifesong put out. Consider cutting back on Christmas gifts and shopping these catalogs as a family with the money you saved.
Or ask friends to bring money to your birthday party instead of gifts and shop the catalogs as a group.
Purchase gifts that give back. We are That Family has a list of places to shop here. HKI (a charitable organization that raises funds for orphans in Suhn and Zak's province in China) is doing a fundraiser with Thirty-One Bags here until November 23. Scarlet Threads and Live Fashionable are two other organizations that will give back through your shopping support.
Whatever you do, let your kids see you do it! Take the time to turn your Christmas shopping into a teachable moment. Let your kids shop with you to fill the shoe box for Operation Christmas Child. Pour over the ministry catalogs together. This holiday season let your generosity be visible and contagious!
7. Sponsor a Child
We have sponsored children through Compassion International for over ten years. Two of our Compassion kids have aged out of the system. When the last one did, we decided to sponsor another child, but this time let Mya pick.
We now sponsor a child in Ethiopia who is about Mya's age. Mya is in charge of writing letters to her. She knows where she lives on our map, and whenever Compassion sends updates or our sponsor child writes letters it gives an amazing, personal teaching moment for our daughter on what life is like on the other side of the world.
8. Take your Kids on a Mission Trip
Many of these ideas will involve a sacrifice of time and money, but the perspective it gives our kids is priceless. Mya traveled with me to Zambia this past spring.
Mid-way through the trip she looked up at me and said, "Mom, the world is a lot bigger than I thought."
Exposing our kids first-hand to the way others live can be a life-changing experience that will encourage a global perspective like nothing else.
Your Turn: Please share places you have found where you can purchase gifts that give back, or any other ways you encourage a global perspective in your kids.
Tuesday, April 03, 2012
You CAN make a difference!!
***Impact Zambia Update: 30 commitments...4 days to go. Needing 70 more Impacters!
Wednesday, March 28, 2012
Impact Lives in Zambia
Join us to IMPACT lives in Zambia...

Tuesday, March 13, 2012
TIA
I am hoping to post more. There is SO much to share!
Thursday, March 01, 2012
Here we go...
The day she has long awaited is finally here.
In Mya's own words, "As the days got closer (to leaving for Zambia), I got nervouser and excited. I couldn't wait to hug Aunt Leslie and play with the things in my backpack."
She has been ready to get on the plane for weeks and the day is finally here.
Today Mya and I leave for Africa, Zambia to be specific, to visit my sister and the Lifesong school.
We are expecting to have a great adventure.
I have a few other expectations for our trip as well:
I am expecting to spend some quality time with my sister whom I miss,
to tour the Lifesong school and learn more about how God is working there,
to have lots and lots (like a 15-hour plane ride lots) of mother-daughter bonding time,
for a life-changing experience that shapes my daughter's perspective for life.
There are others, but I'll stop here.
I don't know if my expectations are too high, or too low.
Regardless, its time to set expectation aside and start living this adventure.
Here we go!
Monday, November 21, 2011
For my birthday...
It is proof that the cycle can be broken.
And even more exciting... there is a piece of land available in Ukraine that Lifesong will buy if they raise enough money. This land will be used to plant strawberries. It will be used to give more orphans a chance to rise above and make something of themselves.
It will allow them to beat the odds.
Odds like 80% of orphans who age out of the system end up dead, doing drugs or in prostitution.
Terrible odds.
BUT, Lifesong is making a difference and YOU can help.
Here's how... for my birthday (which happens to be today) I am asking for presents:
$33 donations to Lifesong (in honor of my 33rd birthday)
Donations that will be invested in the lives of orphans, so we can tell more stories like Sergie and Andre's.
Go here now to give!
Friday, September 23, 2011
There She Goes
I am so excited to see God work in her and through her. I am so excited to see her live out this dream.
But I will miss her.
A lot.
Which I'm trying not to think about.
So let's move on.
If you are interested in following along on Leslie's great adventure, she will be blogging here (hopefully with more frequency than she's blogged the last 6 months, hint, hint).
You can also follow along with the McB family here. They arrived in Zambia today. Leslie will be living with them for the first two months until their guest house is complete. Then she will move across their yard.
Leslie, I love you. I'm praying for you. And I can't wait to see the adventure unfold.
Glory to God, for "great are his purposes and mighty are his deeds." (Jer 32:19)
Sunday, May 22, 2011
Aunt Leslie
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Shoes and Beans
We've been cleaning out closets this week. I have garbage bags ready to sell or give away after going through only two closets, not to mention the tubs of clothes I plan to keep. Meanwhile, I'm making a list of clothes to buy. It's crazy really. Especially when you look at how the rest of the world lives.
Telling my kids how great they have it doesn't go very far. Even telling them some kids get only one meal a day, have only one pair of shoes, etc. can go in one ear and out the other. It's not that they don't care, its just hard to grasp when you can't see it up close and personal.
Even when you've seen it up close and personal it drifts away when you are surrounded once again with "more than enough." I hate how that happens.
That's why I'm excited about a couple "days" Lifesong for Orphans is encouraging in the upcoming week.
Shoe Saturday and Tortilla Tuesday.
The Lifesong blog is focusing on Honduras this week. They have a great program (go here to read more!) making a huge difference in the lives of kids in Honduras. Kids who have one pair of shoes and eat rice, beans and tortillas every single day.
On Shoe Saturday, Lifesong invites you to count the pairs of shoes in your kids closet (with them of course) and remember the child in Honduras with only one pair.
On Tortilla Tuesday, Lifesong invites you to have a meal of rice, beans and tortillas and remember the child in Honduras who is eating the same thing.
It's a great chance to help our children, and us, remember those who have less and experience what that feels like on a small level. It's also a great chance to get involved, donate money and share your "more than enough" with the kids in Honduras.
Head on over to the Lifesong blog today to learn more!
Monday, October 25, 2010
Adopt an Orphanage
Then please watch the following video. Not only do I believe in the cause it shares, I love the way it is presented. Plus my little sis has put in hours and hours and hours to hand draw, trace, photograph and present this little 2.5 minute video to you.
I think you owe it to her to watch. :)
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
An Update... Help Orphans in Liberia
2010 Liberia VBS from Lifesong for Orphans on Vimeo.
The goal is 70 people. $28 a month. One year commitment.
We currently have 25 commitments... 45 to go in just 3 days!
Can we do it? With your help we can!
Join us in bringing joy and purpose to orphans.
Contact info@lifesongfororphans.org to commit!
Monday, September 20, 2010
Help Orphans in Liberia!
This week we are inviting our faithful readers and supporters to step up and help us in a time of need for Lifesong Liberia.
Friday, August 06, 2010
Vanya
I am so excited for you to read this post because in it you will "meet" a kid who I am extremely proud of. My first memories of Vanya are him and Kory singing pop songs like "Beautiful Girl" and some JT song.:)
Today he is a Godly young man with a passion for Christ. Seriously I am so proud of him! Please take 2 minutes to watch the following video and then read on to learn more about this special young man and how God has worked in his life.
“I remember the first time I saw Vanya because there was something different about him. Yes, he was the only black kid in the orphanage, but more than that, there was something about his eyes that intrigued me.
“Vanya is a smart kid.” Denis, our director, told us. “He was abandoned as a newborn. His parents were students at the university and he is very smart.”
I smiled at him and he smiled back. His outgoing personality was evident as he tried his hand at English. I met a lot of kids at that summer camp in 2004, but Vanya is the one I remember."
-Marla Ringger, Orphan Advocate
Vanya, then 13, was just learning the power of Christ’s love in his life. Recently Lifesong for Orphans had started a program at his home in Sachnovsheena Orphanage. And though Vanya resisted the Gospel at first, through the examples of volunteers and staff members, Biblical mentorship, and educational support he began to see Christ’s love in action, and knew this was something he wanted for himself.

Now at 19, Vanya continues to rise above standards and expectations. He lives in one of Lifesong’s Transition Homes in Kharkov, a home designed to support those aging out of the orphanage system, studies English at the local college, translates for Americans who come to visit, and mentors younger boys at the orphanage in the same way the Lifesong staff once mentored him!
We praise God for success stories like Vanya’s and are thankful for our partners who continue to support those like him both financially and in prayer!
Vanya from Lifesong for Orphans on Vimeo.
Tuesday, April 06, 2010
Lifesong in Ethiopia

Saturday, October 31, 2009
A Free Event you don't want to miss!

National Orphan Sunday Community Wide Gathering
Pontiac Township High School - Pontiac, IL
November 15, 2009 at 2pm
Our prayer is that this event will raise awareness for orphan care and adoption within the community and allow the Lord to stir in the hearts of believers all over this state.
Lysa TerKeurst from Proverbs 31 Ministries will be sharing her incredible testimony and adoption journey.
Friday, October 02, 2009
Visiting Ukraine - An Update to a Previous Post
Tonya is living in Transition home #2. She has a contagious smile and is going to school to be a fashion designer. Denis and Tonya have unofficially adopted her into their home.
Vanya is a Christian. He lives in Transition home #1 and he hopes someone will sponsor him so he can come to the United States for school. It is extremely tough being a black man in Ukraine. He is an amazing young man with a gentle spirit.
Andrea is living in Transition home #2. He is still one of the most friendly people I know with a huge smile. He likes to practice his English when Americans are around. He wants to be a contractor.
Little Tonya is still at Loubetein. Her dad still refuses to let her be fostered or adopted. She was away at a camp when I was visiting so I didn't get to see her this trip.
Alla came to visit us on Sunday night. She has not made a decision for Christ. I don't know what her life is like. She looked hard to me, BUT she came to see us and that says something.
Please keep these amazing kids and the ones coming behind them in your prayers. Pray that God will continue to work through Lifesong, that people in Ukraine will step up and join in the work and that people in America will step up and provide funds that make the work possible.
And, please pray that more and more orphans will break free from the cycle of hopelessness that ensnares so many.
I believe prayer is a powerful tool. Thank you for caring enough to lift these special kids up to our Heavenly Father - your prayers make a difference and that is an exciting thing!
Monday, September 21, 2009
Visiting Ukraine - Transition Homes
On the surface this sounds good, but in reality...
- The dorms are not nice places to live and
- The kids are released into the world with little if nothing to catch them when they fall.
So Lifesong started building transition homes (to see pictures and learn more go here).
The transition homes provide a wonderful environment along with CCP staff who live in the homes with the kids. To grab a hold of this opportunity, the kids need to be serious about their lives. They need to commit to staying away from drugs, alcohol and prostitution. They need to commit to going to school and becoming productive members of society.
And the kids who live there are absolutely AMAZING!
You could see the pride in their eyes as they showed us their rooms. We got to hear about their goals and what they are becoming: gardeners, mechanics, contractors, teachers.
They are breaking the cycle of hopelessness. The cycle in which orphans create orphans.
Instead they are becoming orphans who mentor orphans.
Take Ruslana. Ruslana grew up in orphanage #4 (one of the tougher ones in the area). Today she is a Christian who is on Lifesong's staff. She lives in Transition Home #1 as a mentor and she works at Loubetein coaching the kids in various sporting activities with the ultimate goal of winning them for Christ.
The afternoon we spent at Loubetein was special. We did a craft project with the kids and then got to play basketball and volleyball with them. While we were playing in the gym Kolya showed up. Kolya stays in Transition home #2, he came to volunteer his time, to mentor those who were coming behind him.
I am telling you, these kids blew me away. Their amazing smiles and gentle spirits. I so wish you could have been there, to see them. They are the fruit of this ministry. A wonderful, fragrant site to behold!
Don't let this little girls face fool you. She was a sweetie with a mischevious grin. She will most likely be adopted by a family in Ukraine. Her brother lives at Loubetein with her. You could tell right away he was also her protector. Pray that the family who wants to adopt her will want to adopt him as well.
You yourselves are our letter, written on our hearts, known and read by everybody. You show that you are a letter from Christ, the result of our ministry, written not with ink but with the Spirit of the living God, not on tablets of stone but on tablets of human hearts.
2 Corinthians 3:2-3
Friday, September 18, 2009
Haggai's Story
Ukraine is not the only place Lifesong is making a difference.
Please watch the following video. It touched my heart and I hope it touches yours as well. It is the body of Christ in action.
If you'd like to find out more about Lifesong Zambia, go here.
You can make a difference too. Lifesong has created a catalog of needed items at the school in Zambia. Items range in price from $21 - $2,000.
It doesn't take much to make a difference in the world around us, but we need to be looking and more importantly acting on the opportunities as they come our way. The opportunities come in many different shapes, they don't have to be monetary (read this great post on Lysa's blog for an example!), but if you look for them, take advantage of them, and act you will be blessed!
My faith demands--this is not optional--my faith demands that I do whatever I can, wherever I am, whenever I can, for as long as I can with whatever I have to try to make a difference.
--Jimmy Carter
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Visiting Ukraine - part 1
We were given a tour of an orphanage near the city of Zap. An orphanage administrator took us around the building to see where the kids sleep and where they go to school.
They took us to see the little kids (I'm guessing ages 3 - 5) who were playing together in a small room.
One little girl (pictured right) caught my eye. I tried to get her name, but every time I asked she would bring me a toy car with missing wheels to play with.
I wanted to play with her, but before I knew it the orphanage administrator was hurrying us along to see another part of the building.
She took us through the bedrooms where we saw 15-20 beds crammed together.
The older kids are a little more spread out, with an average of 6 staying in one room.
As we were walking through the halls of that building, being stared at by teenage kids with hard faces, I tried not to think about what we were seeing. I tried not to think about what it would be like for my little friend as she grew up, day in and day out, in a place like this.
But when you are staring reality in the face, it is hard not to think about it.
It was hard to leave. When you see kids, interact with them, hug them, they become more than a picture or an idea. It is one thing to hear about kids in an orphanage, it is another thing to see them face to face. It is heartbreaking.
But, there is hope. God is using volunteers and the staff of Lifesong for Orphans to reach these kids. They can't change their living conditions, but they can love on them and teach them about Jesus. They can mentor them and pray for them.
And they are making a difference. I saw that more on this trip than ever before.
Visiting the orphanage near Zap (where Lifesong has been involved for a little over one year) and then visiting Loubetein (where Lifesong has been for over 6 years) I could see a difference in the kids and how they interacted with us and each other.
In case you are curious, here is how Lifesong is making a difference. The goal of Lifesong in Ukraine is to bring CCP (constant Christian presence) into the orphanages who are willing to work with them. The CCP work at the orphanages on a daily basis, teaching classes, hosting after-school activities, running camps in the summer, and basically just being there. They also raise money to help renovate and improve the orphanages. A few projects include playgrounds, computer labs and refurbished gym floors.
If you want to hear more or watch a few short videos about this program, go here.
The second part of Lifesong's work in Ukraine are the transition homes, but that will be a blog post for another day!
Saturday, September 12, 2009
A Thousand Words
There is so much I want to share. I feel compelled to write about the special kids I met in the hopes that maybe your heart will be pricked and you will get involved.
But it is so hard to know where to start.
Thank you for your prayers is probably the place to begin. I felt them and God answered them.
To start with, the day we arrived I was reunited with Varya AND Valya. I truly believe our meeting was a miracle, orchestrated by God. I will tell you more about that later. Like I said, I'm still processing.
For now I am not going to write much, just show you pictures (with captions). As they say, a picture is worth a thousand words, so hopefully these pictures will make up for my current lack of words!
Me and my girls, Valya and Varya!
Me and Corinna - One of the kids I was drawn to immediately.
Misha - our driver for the week. An amazing man who knows first hand what it is like to be persecuted for your faith.
I stayed at one of the transition homes. These are homes Lifesong for Orphans has built for kids once they graduate out of the orphanage. To live there, they must commit to certain rules of conduct. The alternative is state-run dorms which are nasty places.


